Event description

Saturday 29th July.

BDSM Bites


Finding a play partner

1pm – 2 pm

From a single session at a party to a long term relationship and everything in between, making that first step can be challenging. This is a discussion on tips and tricks for initiating play with someone you haven’t scened with before. There is no one way or formula. Rather we will discuss a number of ways of meeting, negotiating and initiating a BDSM interaction with someone.  Where to find them, how to approach them, the kind of things you need to discuss as well as common ‘mistakes’.


Intro to Negotiation

2:30pm – 3:30 pm

Negotiation is arguably the most important part of any BDSM activity. Not only is it a vital part of gaining informed consent, it is also a key tool in ensuring everyone involved has a good time. There are a lot of things that need to be discussed and considered. Often in the moment it is easy to forget to cover the essentials. This class will give you the knowledge and confidence to negotiate a BDSM scene.


Moments at the end

4:00 pm – 5:00pm

Aftercare, in its simplest definition, is something that takes place in the time following a scene. It’s best to think of aftercare as a part of a scene – the last chapter of the story, so to speak.

When it comes down to it Aftercare can consist of anything really. It just depends on what each person in the scene requires to “come down” safely from the emotional and physical highs of a scene, in order to return to an everyday state of mental and emotional equilibrium.

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please note: all tickets are per person